Pundit Roshan Singh
With nearly a billion followers worldwide, Hinduism is the third largest religion in the world. It teaches that God is within each being and object, and the purpose of life is to become aware of this divine presence. The Hindu faith which is not a man make religion but a way of life which originated in India, but today there are many denominations worldwide, each with slightly different customs and beliefs.
This is our guide to Hindu funerals and the death rituals that they follow.
Hindu beliefs about death
The Hindu faith is centred around reincarnation; the belief that when someone dies, the soul takes on a new body as a different form according to his or her accumulated karma. They believe that although the physical body dies, their soul remains and continues to recycle until it settles upon its true nature. This can take many lifetimes, and with each death they strive to move closer to Lord Krishna the Supreme Personality of Godhead. Additionally, they believe their soul’s next incarnation will depend on the actions throughout their previous life, this is also known as Karma.
Why do Hindus cremate?
After death, Hindus believe that the physical body serves no purpose, and therefore does not need to be preserved. They choose to cremate their loved ones as they believe it’s the quickest way to release the soul and help with reincarnation. Historically, Hindu cremations would take place on the Ganges River, India, and the family would carry the casket to the crematorium site. Nowadays, Hindus are cremated locally, and most funeral directors can accommodate the traditions and rituals of a Hindu cremation with the aid and direction of the family Pundit. www,punditroshan.co.za
What are Hindu funeral rites?
Traditionally, Hindu funeral rites take the form of chants or mantras which are overseen by an officiant, usually a Hindu priest or the eldest son of the bereaved. They will gather the family and friends and lead them in the various Hindu death rituals. These include:
Washing the body with water and then applying ghee, honey, milk, and yoghurt
Placing essential oils on the head of the deceased (turmeric for females, sandalwood for males)
Placing the palms in a position of prayer and tying the big toes together
Dressing the deceased’s body in smart clothes (contemporary) or wrapping it in a white sheet (traditional)
Placing a garland of flowers and ‘pinda’ (rice balls) around their loved ones
Putting a lamp near the head and lighting agarbathi.
How long after death is a Hindu funeral?
According to Hindu death rituals, the body should remain at the home until cremation – this is usually within 24 hours of the death. Due to the short time frame of Hindu cremation, embalming is considered unnecessary. It is customary for family and friends to visit the home of the bereaved to offer their sympathy.
What happens at a Hindu funeral?
The funeral is done in a very simple and dignified manner. There is no need to have the venue decorated.
The casket is carried into the crematorium, feet first, while mourners recite prayers.
An open casket displays the deceased, and guests are expected to view the body. This should be done respectfully and without touching the person who has died.
A Hindu priest and senior family members conduct the cremation ceremony (‘mukhagni’).
Traditionally, the mukhagni is only attended by men, however, modern Hindu funerals allow women to attend.
After the cremation water oblations (tarpan) is carried out at the cremation grounds.
Upon returning home from the cremation everyone that attended the ceremony is expected to sprinkle water dipped in salt, fire embers and dried chillies with the aid of siligaberry leaves over themselves before they enter the home to wade of any negative energy.
The day after a Hindu funeral, the ashes are scattered over a sacred body of water or a place of importance to the deceased.
How long does a Hindu funeral last?
Usually Hindu funeral services don’t last longer than 30 minutes, however, this will vary depending on the wishes of the deceased, and their family.
What to wear to a Hindu funeral?
Unlike other religions, black is considered inappropriate for a Hindu funeral. Instead, funeral etiquette is that mourners (both male and female) should dress in white. No head covering is required for either sex and open-toe shoes are also acceptable. Women should dress conservatively, covering their arms.
What to bring to a Hindu funeral
It is not common to bring gifts or flowers to the funeral, instead, they should be given to the family ahead of the ceremony. Food is also not part of Hindu custom but sandwiches etc is served to those that are the home. This is prepared and brought by family and friends.
No braised food is prepared in the home of the departed for 10 days. Family and friends generally bring simple preparations for them.
What happens after a Hindu funeral?
Traditionally, the Hindu mourning period ranges from 10 to 30 days. Throughout this time, families may display a picture of their loved one, adorned with a garland of flowers, somewhere in their house. Visitors are also welcome during this period.
A cleansing ceremony is carried out on the 10th day when the son who performed the last rites shaves off his hair. Simple food offerings is prepared together with black urud dhall which is offered to the departed. The barber who does the necessary is rewarded with food, clothing and other items.
On the 13th day of mourning, it’s common for the grieving family to hold a ceremony (‘preta-karma’) where they perform rituals to help release the soul of the deceased for reincarnation. Additionally, on the fifth month and the eleventh month of the death, the family host a memorial event that honours the life of their loved one.