History of Tulsi Vivah
Pundit Roshan Singh
Today is a very auspicious day in the Sanathan (Hindu) calender when we celebrate Tulsi Vivah (the marriage between Krsna and Tulsi Devi, Prabhodini Ekadashi, Govardhan Pooja (when Krishan lifted the Govardhan Mountain on his little finger to protect the Vrajvasi’s from the torrential rain brought down by Indra) and the New Year. I take the opportunity of sending blessings to you and your family as we rejoice in clebrating the pastimes of the Lord and seek his divine blessings as these festivals are know as the mothers of devotion that come as a reminder of our lost connection with the Lord. They help us to stimulate love of God.
Lord Vishnu, in the form of the Shaligram stone, was left alone and sad. But one day, he was approached by Tulsi, who was also known as Vrinda in her past life. She had taken the form of a plant and wanted to marry Lord Vishnu.
Touched by her devotion, Lord Vishnu accepted her proposal and married her in a grand ceremony. This marriage between Tulsi and Shaligram became known as the Tulsi Vivah, symbolizing the reunion of Vrinda and Lord Vishnu.
Hence, Tulsi Vivah is celebrated as a symbol of devotion and the sacred bond between husband and wife. It is believed that by performing this ritual, one can attain blessings from Goddess Lakshmi and Goddess Parvati for a happy married life.
On the day of Tulsi Vivah, a mandap (wedding canopy) is set up around the Tulsi plant, decorated with flowers, lights, and other traditional items. A statue or image of Lord Vishnu or Lord Krishna or a Saligram is placed next to the tulsi plant, representing the groom.
The rituals begin with the recitation of Vedic hymns and mantras, followed by the tying of a sacred thread (mangalsutra) around the tulsi plant, signifying the marriage. The bride (tulsi plant) is then dressed as a bride, with jewellery and a red saree or dress. Devotees offer prayers and perform aarti to seek blessings from Goddess Lakshmi and Goddess Parvati for a happy married life.
After the marriage ceremony, devotees perform kanyadaan (giving away the bride) by offering the tulsi plant to Lord Vishnu or Lord Krishna. This is followed by a grand feast and distribution of prasad (holy offering) among family, friends, and community members.
Embrace the Blessings of Tulsi Vivah
Tulsi Vivah is not just a festival; it’s a divine celebration of love, tradition, and spirituality. Experience the sacred union of Tulsi and Lord Vishnu and allow the blessings of this auspicious occasion to enrich your journey.